Dzharif Shafwan 101

wahh.. dzharif mengamuk sakan semalam! panik mama n papa. mama ikut nasihat uncle dahuzz n anti che lah, diorang cakap, baby nangis ada 5 sebab dan penawarnya:

1. lapar - kasik susu
2. pampers basah - salin pampers
3. kembung - sapu minyak
4. panas / sejuk - bukak / tutup kipas
5. gangguan (as in the not seen type) - baca ayat kursi

semua mama n papa dah buat, but dzharif was still inconsolable.. menjerit2 lagi.. so mama guess its colic lah, smpai 3 jam nangis tak berenti. last2 mama teringat paed ada kasi PCM yg dia kata boleh kasi dzharif if we cant handle his colic crying anymore.. papa pun kasi la n dzharif went to sleep almost immediately.. penat punya pasal dh mengaruk berapa jam.. sian baby mama..

tp mama tensen lah mlm tu.. i was asked whether "susu ada tak sebenarnya??" huh! the nerve! apa ingat baby tu nangis sbb tak cukup susu ke? what has he been eating these past 3 weeks?? mcm undermining my effort and my capability pulak. breastfeeding mums need the support la.. bukan toxic questions like that! huh!

another question this morning, "nanti dah keje baby tak boleh minum breast milk exclusively dah, mmg kena kasi susu tepung gak.." hello.. i'm the mother ok, i can express my breast milk for my baby, like other people jugak. kalo other people can do it, why cant i?? memang kena kuat semangat sikitlah, but i'm up for it. and i repeat, BFing mum need the support! bukan shoot us down wherever whenever. aku nak bf my baby for as long as i can. why r u planting toxic things in my brain?

mama masih marah smpai skrg.. but knowing me, mmg mama pendamkan je la kan.. mama mana tau nk marah ke hangin ke dan2 tu gak.. tapi satu masa aku meletup nanti jgn salahkan aku laa...